need help, sex or no sex??

[EnergyAZ]

You may be his wife, but you arent his call girl. I think God would understand.

If you feel like sharing yourself with him - by all means, do it.

But if it doesnt seem right to you, dont try to talk yourself into it, I imagine you may only regret doing so in the end?

Have you explained to him that the lack of sex in the relationship was a symptom and not the disease itself? And that you would LOVE to have a mutually satisfactory sex life with him?

Does he have any idea or take ownership of how HIS actions made this problem? Or does he think its 'your' problem?