Hi there Lan - that sounds proactive on your W's part - it stands out cos mostly she seems pretty passive - or at least that's how she comes over in your thread...
Has your consideration of "giving up" manifested itself in any obvious changes in your attitude / demeanour do you think?
What would happen to make you get to that point?
KBO - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years