Hi there Lan - that sounds proactive on your W's part - it stands out cos mostly she seems pretty passive - or at least that's how she comes over in your thread...

Has your consideration of "giving up" manifested itself in any obvious changes in your attitude / demeanour do you think?

What would happen to make you get to that point?

KBO - GFI


Me: 40ish
W: 40ish
Together: 20 ish years
Married: 10ish Years