Did she have any relationships with other men that you are aware of? I think my wife has but I am not sure. She denies it and claims they are just friends. She is always hanging around her friends and keeps on the run so she doens't have to think about what she is doing. I tend to mess up that the times that she is with her own thoughts because she always contacts me about something random about our son and it puts me in a frenzy. Glad to hear about your sitch. great steps to avoid conflict too.