You've gotten so much good advice already, I don't feel like I have anything to add but... GOOD JOB!!!!!!!!! Way to go, girl!!!!!
Just two lil things... I think it's better to say "it was nice to chat with you too" or something like that instead of "it was a nice evening". Also like msmelancholy said, it might be worth it to be mysterious about your move. that seems to pique their interest...
that is so interesting that you are feeling no connection, but he seems to be stepping closer... weird!!!!