Useless Desires [15]

[kat727]

I am anxious myself to see if things in that department will be different if I don't feel as if I am being stalked or hunted!

I don't take it as a bad thing to be on here, even months after the divorce. It isn't about ex so much for me but about myself and my kids and trying to put the pieces together in a better way for all of us. Ex will inevitably flitter through and think what he has to say should change the life we have now made. It doesn't. He gave me a book for Christmas and at least put some thought into it. It was just a gift, nothing more on my end, though it made me wonder why.

Our ex's aren't where we are. They never fixed their issues which led to the break down of our marriages. They just went on to the next one with nary a thought or care. We tried to mend the wrongs but it was too late.

They are on a different time line but I don't think they will find an easy path or someone worth having until they figure out their own issues. The people we fell in love with don't exist anymore. So gather the photos and love letters and precious momentos up and put them in a box and put them away.

Personally it would hurt to much to look to closely at them now. No need to torture myself. Doesn't mean I am weak, just means I know that I am at my limit right now and will be ready some other day.

Don't be sad to be here, we are are glad to have you back. I get my best laughs from others on here and the stories can be inspirational too.

kat