Counseling

[EnergyAZ]

DQ - I suggest getting some sex toys and when you are in the mood and he is not - take care of business and dont be too discreet about it.

My wife used to do that and it would pretty much always get me to come around whenever I might not have been in the mood.

It works vice versa as well, she isnt in the mood - I take care of myself, and I rarely finish alone. ;-)

(Of course, if your H is intimidated by sex toys or has hangups over self gratification this strategy could backfire.)