Thank you very much. There is little more you can say. The worst thing about it for me is that I am sitting here feeling guilty (as usual) for the things I said to her last night. I was really nasty, but I just don't know how else I could have reacted. This is the 2nd OM in 8 months! We aren't even divorced and she thinks it's ok to start dating. I just can't understand her thought process. I also don't want to sit around all day feeling bad for reacting to her talking to another man under my roof.
In her mind she is divorced from you already. You are caught playing catch up. My x-wife got engaged before we were divorced. It hurts for a little while but that all depends on you and how long you want to hang on to that hurt. I know your emotions are still pretty raw but do everything you can to keep it together. Get past the things you said to her and regroup.
What are you doing to make you more interesting to your wife? What are you doing to attract her back to your camp? Are you making any changes? Journaling on this website does not count as doing something. What is your plan?
