David Cunningham says that the final blow to any relationship is when the S cuts off communication. I have now received that blow.
This morning, I was making my son's bed before going to work. My STBXW appears in the doorway behind me, no makeup on, sobbing:
W: FIB...I know that someday I will heal and perhaps we will be friends, but, I never expected you to be so adversarial. (?)Right now, I don't want to talk to you ever again. I think communication is best by text message only.
Me: Can I respond?
W walks away and heads to the door.
Me: (what else could I say?) I'm sorry you feel that way.
Over...but...we knew that. There was no communication anyway.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
