Its not too hard to stoke the fires without actually making love.

We men are visual creatures. Be eye candy. Its that simple (at least for most of us)

Lounge around the house in lingerie instead of sweats or anything baggy and unflattering.

Be a tease and flash him. Bend over with locked knees. See if you can distract him with upskirt/down blouse shots.

Dont wear underwear, and make sure he realizes that - but without telling him. If he comments, just give him one of those looks you women are so good at giving and let him enjoy the view.

And whenever he approaches, you playfully shoot him down telling him there is a time and place for everything and continue teasing. LOVE your role in teasing him, enjoy the ego boost of his oogling, you are the object of his desire - embrace it!

You will drive him nuts!

And when its finally go time, he will have all this pent up sexual energy to unleash and you will both be smiling in the end


Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now