Well, see, we were never romantically involved. Not exactly. We were more like best friends (no benefits!) I was involved with someone else romantically at the time. I don't think I was ever able to talk with anyone as openly and honestly as we did. In fact, we sort of eventually lost touch because he was so unsupportive of my other relationship--the man I eventually married, quite disastrously.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012