Life in the Rough - Practice That Swing!

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Thanks my friends. I appreciate your love and thoughts.

It was -13 here this morning. Before wind chill. As the sun came up it has gotten a bit warmer, and it seems to be too cold to snow, so that's good. All I can say is brrrrrrrr.

WCW, I have thought about that too, whether he saw my letter. My H said that OW is stupid enough that she would show it to him. IDK, there was nothing in it that he and I had not already talked about. I was very careful about that. It was more about my feelings about her, and me having closure with that. From what my H told me yesterday that the family has told him, it seems that OW's H has been in a steady decline since Christmas. All of the parents have tried to get him help, but OW continues to refuse.

Your viewpoint about him telling me anything and everything makes sense. He also told me that she had some nasty things to say about him after the crash, so he probably did assume it would be better that I hear those things from him and not round about from her. They still hurt though. And it was around this time last year, so that creates pain as well.

SC, I know that he is angry at himself, and angry at the OW.

There have been some words that comfort between the painful confessions. Like he said that he realizes that it was all fantasy, and that it was purely selfish and that he somehow thought I would never know about it. He also told me that things began to end when he told her that he didn't trust her. Shortly after that I found a voice mail message that she left him and the sh!t hit the fan.

We are being careful. I am so tired of the emotional drama that I really don't care what the OW's H does anymore. As long as it doesn't involve me or hurt my H.

There is a reason for all of God's rules. If anybody doesn't see that, they are nuts!