Thank you very much. There is little more you can say. The worst thing about it for me is that I am sitting here feeling guilty (as usual) for the things I said to her last night. I was really nasty, but I just don't know how else I could have reacted. This is the 2nd OM in 8 months! We aren't even divorced and she thinks it's ok to start dating. I just can't understand her thought process. I also don't want to sit around all day feeling bad for reacting to her talking to another man under my roof.