I like it when a guy makes some decisions. Especially in the beginning if he is asking ME out, I think he should have an idea of what he wants to do, where he wants to go. I am kind of traditional/old fashioned I guess. If you asked me to dinner and then you picked the restaurant, that would be great! In fact I always always wanted to have one of those 'surprise' weekends where you pack a bag but you don't know where you are going to go or what you are going to do....