One more thing. A few weeks ago my W was upset because my sister had emailed her to wish her a merry xmas and to let her know that she could call her if she needed someone to talk to. That made my W upset because she felt like my sister was putting pressure on her. Geez, some pressure. Wishing merry xmas to someone you've known for 10 years.
Anyway, I saw my W right after that and I tried to calm her down by saying not to worry about what my sister or family thinks and that this was only about us, no one else.
Well when I said that my W started tearing up, but she looked away from me. She wouldn't make eye contact. I had to say "Look at me, look at me, it's only about us, ok?" And she just nodded.
She's definitely got her mind on this guy. But the question remains. To confront, or not to confront.
Me: 33 WAW/MLC: 33 M: 4+, T: 10+ Separated: Nov 08 A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended) A#2: Feb 09 - ? 1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes 2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t 3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3
