Julia - The offer of help is probably, at some level, from guilt. My xh does that all the time too. Take him up on his offer if you really do need the help but, if not, let it go and just thank him for the offer.

The detachment is good for you. Don't feel guilty about it. You have to come to that point to move forward in your life and that is exactly what you are doing. I'm so happy for you!

The draft of your text is great just the way you've written it IMO.

Have a wonderful time at choir tonight! Take care of you!

Michelle


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!