I'm impressed by your meeting with h. I hope to have one of those one day with mine. I can feel the detachment growing and I totally get how you would question whether you want to be with him.
I agree with Kalni; the more we let go and move on, the more attractive we become. That doesn't mean necessarily they will come back, of course.
It sounds like you are not initiating contact. I would be fairly mysterious or at least not offering details about your move. It will be exciting for you and it is all about your life.
