Thank you both for posting. And this is why I am unsure of what to do, I agree with both of you.
Here are my feelings. On the one hand, I have to file-I have done serious, life altering damage having waited this long.
I absolutely feel my h wants me to throw him out to get him off the hook. And the stubborn part of me does not want to give him an out.
I dont think he feels that this is where he belongs. I think a large part of it is our son.
And what am I showing my son, that a man can tell his family he is unhappy and wants to leave and the woman lets him come and go as he pleases and acts like it is all normal?
I do not want to do the wrong thing, but I also dont want to lose whats left of my soul allowing h to cake-eat.
