THanks hope. I am reading this book. It does make a lot of sense, especially DURING the M. Karen, you are right about MLC being not very attractive. Which leads me to think why OW think he is the end-all. Is it because he is different around her? Is he miserable as he is when around me or at work. Or does she really cheer him up? Or is he putting on an act for her? Who knows? My intuition is that the 'lust' part of their relationship is making everything fun and dandy. I have to wait it out for him to get back to his messed up self. I wonder how fun it would be for her to deal with all of his issues with stress, work, nasty clients, aging issues, and now family obligations. I wonder if she is willing to support him in those real-life situations as well as in the work place since she is his subordinate. Or if she will find that it is so much trouble and that he has not even divorced that she might have insecurity issues as well. We will see, time is on my side.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
