Sure, she says that now. In 10 years she'll think you are controlling.
LOL, that was worth saying twice!
See, can we get some ladies opinions here as this is the confusing part for me (and probably us men). Unless it's a specific surprise, I'm more inclined to suggest things to do and get agreement as this can go all a bit Pete Tong can't it ? or is it just the type or woman, i.e. some like it some don't ?
My STBX, always wanted me to be like this, loved it the times I did it, but it was like a high and she would then expect it all the time rather than the special one off.