The only thing you don't want to do... is what isn't working. How about another tact. Tell him you are interested but you don't want to push. It is up to him.
I assume you are doing things to be desirable...taking care of your body, etc.
Then stop initiating.
What would be the 270 degree angle? or 90 degree
When things were better, what were they like? What were you saying, and what were you doing? Who initiated?
When you are alittle more back together, it will probably important for you to initiate sometimes. This doesn't seem to be the time for that.
He MAY be more worried about his age and things going on inside him...and he's putting it on you. I don't know. But don't overanalyze this ... it will make you nuts and won't bring you closer to a solution.
Just try something else. Anything BUT what you've been doing that isn't working. Keep the things that do work.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
