Hi N_A

You may have something there, but I think it's me who has been doing a bit of testing.

Since the start of the year when W got us off to a bad start and we didn't talk for a week, I have backed right off, given her space and gone about doing things for me, and looking after myself. Well today W called me at work and asked me why I was spending so much time on the computer in the evenings and why I wasn't going to bed at the same time as her. Well I explained that I was fixing the computer of this virus (finally clean now)but I was also giving her space in the house, and anyway when we go to bed together she just falls asleep and I usually get up again and go on the computer.

W pointed out to me that the 3 of us (D7 included ) were in danger of going our separate ways in the house and we should do more things together in the evenings. She also said that we both know when bed time is so there should not be any discussion we should just go to bed together. Well she is right there. But I know I have been called a very patient guy on these boards, but over these last few weeks I have been thinking of giving up, maybe W has been picking up on this.

Anyway I take W's comments as a small positive step forwards, even though she did fall asleep as soon as we got in bed together tonight.



Lanzo