As I was reading thru other people's threads I realize that in a way, I should be thankful that H and I get along, that he still shows some affection toward me, and that he maintains contact in person at least 2-4 days per week.
It is still hard at times but it could be much worse.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19