Standing on the Edge

[MsMelancoly]

Hi native, Yes your W does seem to have a lot of anger issues. It was good that you stood up for yourself & told her just to ask for what she wanted. Also telling her that you might not want to reconsile, is good I think. Hopefully, it will make her think about how she acts & talks.

I'm sure your W is angry, frustrated & confused & not just at you - but probably with the world (& herself) in general. It seems many of the WAS are poor. So by walking out their world isn't as rosey as they imagined it would be. Now they don't just have a M issues, but they have real life, surviving issues to handle as well all by themselves. Your W's pride was probably hurt by having to ask you or b*tch at you (add some guilt to that too).

Hang in there & monitor if your actions have had any results.

Just curious, when you told to her just ask, where you in a nice mood or more of an angry or annoyed mood?? Did she again play off your action???

Hope you have a good night