let it go. it isn't worth thinking about. concentrate on yourself and leave him behind. Don't keep dragging him into the present, okay? All it does is prolong the bitterness. In the long run, he isn't worth the energy. You are. So focus on that and just let whatever he does slip away.
I guess I say that because concentrating on the hurt I felt was why I needed to leave the boards. On here, I kept writing about it and thinking about it. I still have that hurt, but I was tired of dwelling on it and thinking of XW and what XW had done and what XW was doing and what XW hadn't done. Not to say I've gotten past that - I haven't. But I want to be past it, and I bet you do too. So let it go.
My $.02. Sorry if I misunderstood - haven't been on for awhile. lodo
