I thought you said you only talked bad about your W here. Why would your children have heard any of this? Why are you talking to your D21 about your D17?
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I told her that D17 said some things regarding me that I won't repeat. I asked her not to say anything.
Yeah, right...don't say anything. Don't you realize that your D21 is likely wondering what you say about her to D17? Now you somehow feel like you have given it your best shot so you're considering Separation or Divorce? That will fix everything....NOT!
What happened to the loving father who was doing everything for his kids? Because your D17 makes some comments you are ready to throw in the towel? Do you have the ONLY mature D17 on the face of the earth? I have a D21 so I know.....they say stuff they don't mean. I know your sad....hurt...grieving....but, you HAVE to stop the pity party if there is any chance you can become the man God intended for you to be. There is NO way that you can show a defeatist, pessimistic, angry, sad, persona on this board and NOT have it bleed over into your "real" life. Stop it, LonelyD! You ARE better than this....man up!
Last edited by FaithfulH; 01/15/0902:18 AM.
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
