NW, I really don't have anything to lose at all - so I figure it's a fine time for the letter. I may wait a couple days just to be sure - but it feels pretty right at the moment. If she gets angry, that's fine, if she responds with the usual curses and vituperations, that's fine as well...It's her anger - not mine - that would be coming out - all I am doing is letting her know the part I played in the demise of our marriage - whether or not she notices any change in me just doesn't matter to me anymore...I know what I've changed in me - and I like the changes I've made - and the changes I continue to work on - they've helped me become a much better father - and a much better person as well...and it may not have happened without having had to go through all this pain.
By this point in my life, I think my friends here know me a lot better than my wife does...which is strange to think...but true.
