And also...you can almost count on your H now getting some kind of "vibe" about this and maybe being nice to you for once. When you start thinking about someone else romantically (even if just in fantasy) they can somehow feel that you've "let go" of them, even just a little bit, and it makes them come around in curiosity like "what is going on? I had a pyschic vibe that she isn't pining away for me anymore....?" I'm not saying he will do or say anything romantic or want to reconcile....just saying that he will somehow "know" that you have a change in your life, you are more hopeful, you have something to be happy about for once....it will make him curious....and all this will happen on a subconscious level....
