WOW!! You're evening sounds great.. much better than I expected to hear, so I am so glad! And it was nice to hear you were able to chat like old friends and it was comfortable.. it may have been a relief to chat to you, you dont have to be a certain way with someone you know so well, you can be yourself an sounded like he 'downloaded' a bit to you.
I was amazed you said this thuogh... "I am not sure I want this guy back. I feel no connection, definitely no attraction"
Wow.. really !!?? Carry on like that and he will be eating out of your palm in no tiem! I agree with kalni, seems that as soon as you switch off from them, truly, thats when they want back! (has been my experience with numerous ex's and how I felt about one or two ex's too). That soudns bad, I havent had dozens of bf's, but you know, enough to confirm thats how it works!
Glad you got the interest only option sorted, that should take the pressure off, hey.
I loved his texts, wow, they were really heartfelt and honest, a real breakthrough there at least with some real communication for a change. I am glad you didnt text back tonight! And dont in the morning either.. in fact, leave it until later on, like teatime at least tommorow??
I liked your reply. Could you add (afer his 2nd text)... thanks for the offer, I will let you know?
I dont know, I dont suppose it matters *that* much what you say,.. except try and be a little bit honest and real back? If you arent (your text was pretty 'cool') it may make him shut down again, although, you dont want to overdo it and spook him.
Well done !! Glad you had a great evening and are not all churned up from seeing him.
