may be his "one true love"?

[pearlharbr]

Hmm, something AliSuddenly said just clicked with me. When BF said the other night he was lost and didn't know what he wanted, it never occurred to me to use that as a building up/compliment opportunity. This is why I read other threads!

WIT, I know the thoughtless comments hurt. I'm still reeling a little bit from BF's comments in C yesterday. But the others are right, we have to learn how to turn it around by either making a light response or building up.