I'm glad all is well. I work with women every day and it has been my experience that when we women are mad or upset in another way, we will either claim up and not talk or we will take it out on whoever is around at the time. So, you are right! I did, however, pray about the situation when I read how angry you got reading my post. That was when I realized that it wasn't directed at just YOU as much as it was just men in general.......but mostly, it was my own stitch and how things went down for me personally and my own pain that I still strugle with where certain people are aware of my EA. So, I had to do some praying over that and ask God to help me not to take it out on a person who had tried as hard as you have worked to get his M back on track. When I know I am 100% right about something, it is hard to back down but I try to not just continue to argue the point.....however, if I don't know that I'm 100% right and it is just my POV, then I try to be big enough to apologize for hurting people's feelings. I did let my own hurt over-take me and I hope I have learned a lesson.......at your expense, I'm sorry to say, but hopefully I will remember it.

I was serious about remembering your family in my prayers and I do hope for the best all the way around.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!