I've been on the board for a few years. Like some of you I started off in the MLC forum.
My W dropped the IDLY bomb a while ago. She didn't say ILY but I'm not in L with you line. I did my best to DB and at times it worked. My W likes to go out with her co-workers after she gets out. At first this was okay, until she went out more and more. Tonight, I don't expect her to be home until after 2AM. Tomorrow she doesn't have to work, but she will go out and I don't expect her to come home until 2AM. If I ask her to make plans with me, she responds with I don't know. If someone else asks her to go out she right there with them.
Last night she went out with her SIL. It was still early and I asked if she wanted to go out for a drink. She didn't feel like it and I didn't push it any further. Even though she's financially in debt she's planning on going on a cruise this summer. The last time she went on a cruise she dropped the bomb. I'm invited, but the person who's planning the trip wants us to be in seperate cabins. We were invited to be baby sitters for her kids that are to young to have their own cabin. Not a good opportunity for piecing IMHO.
I gave my W a choice, she goes on the cruise I'll divorce her, unless our R is doing a lot better.
Our current sitch doesn't have much to report. She hugs me when she goes to work. If I go to hug her, she will hug back. We have not ML or kissed in over five years. We sleep in the same bed and she'll let me hold her hand. She goes out when she feels like it and its not uncommon for her to go away with her GFs for a long weekend. She doesn't ask if she can go out, unless it's on my bowling night. Then she will ask me to watch D10 while she goes out. Yesterday, she went out and I watched our D. D was fresh and annoyed the other bowlers. I told my W today that if she wants to go out on my bowling nights that she better get herself a baby sitter.
I don't know if I belong here. My W hasn't come out and said she wants to work on the M.
