The trip isnt gonna happen. He said "let's take the kids". When I replied the point would be to be alone since we just took a trip with the kids he agreed.I will suggest we do it next weekend...
Nothing else to report, no talks, nothing. Except a friend came over that thinks I am crazy to think this can be fixed because H is behaving like he always did, only that now I notice. She said, to her he sounds normal, she sees that now he is not enough for me anymore.
I tried to verbalise what i am hoping for. I am hoping he will step up and realise he needs to adjust a bit. She thinks that is wishful thinking... we'll see K