Yeah Glam, odd is not the word. I am seriously considering a 180 for me is to tell him since he made the decision to leave, then he needs to do it. This is not fair to my son. He keeps thinking this is it, his father is gone and then he comes back.

And it is not respectful to me. I dont know if he is still with ow romantically or not, but he is living with her mother. And he uses our house like a hotel. It is not right.