Cfronk Don't send your husband anymore letters. You are pursueing him. Change the dance. Let him pursue you. You need to detach from your husband big time, so you can get a handle on your own life. You are trying to control him. You want your husband to think like you. It is not going to happen. If you don't slow down, you are going to chase him away. Hate to be so harsh, but I have been at this for 3 years. I see you setting yourself up for a horrendous fall. Take Care God Bless
