I can't get him to talk about goals for our marriage. When I talk about R, he's stuck on the past. I've tried to get him to let go of the past and to agree to start from this point on...build a new r but he won't. He's always harping on how bad it was and how we can't change, etc.
I think I'll try to get him to see what our marriage can be via letter. Then I'll wait for him to call me, I guess.
