Regarding OW, of course, I have to say, logically speaking, anything is possible. For my own mental well-being, I have put any concern about this issue to rest, knowing that I will learn about it if there is someone, when I am meant to learn of it. Lately, I have been incredibly sad and overwhelmed by our circumstances and really could not handle any more problems than we already have.
I have been struggling with the fear that we will simply never get past the firendship stage - that what we have right now is as much as I will ever get from him. I know what you mean about the depressed mind at work. They really do see things through negative lenses and it colors all that they think. This sort of fuels my fear that things will not improve.
I am fascinated by all of the astrological information you discuss. I know very little about it other than the sort of stereotypes for the signs. For example, I am a Cancer and I totally agree that I am a nester, and I tend to mother too much, but I will say I disagree with the cat thing. I have no cats and I am not a cat person.
Anyway, glad to "meet" you and I will be following your sitch.