Improving things between you and your wife...no nothing you can OVERTLY do. Nothing tangible. Nothing like pushing a button and something got better. Nothing that shows up quickly.
Improving things between you and your wife, what can you do? Over time, prove that your changes are real. Prove that you are desirable to her. Prove that you are going to be fine if she packs bags, gets tattoos, joins a circus and starts a cult that worships celery. You improve (notice the prove as the root word there?) by proving.
Things that won't help: Moping, worrying, snooping, talking about your realationship, proving your love by presents or words, yelling at her...See the gist here? Negative stuff.
This is going suck either way Ral, it is going to suck until you can learn tricks to distract yourself. Until it no longer hurts so much. Again either way it will suck, one way gives you a greater chance at still being married, which path do you want?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
