You're in control of your happiness, not someone else. You are the who can erase what is left of those feelings by letting them go.
Taking time to heal is a good thing. Not looking for love or perfection is another. Learn to laugh and enjoy yourself. I never ever thought I could go this long without sex. But I can and will until the time is right. It all starts in the mind.
With everything I've learned I want it all. With time, I'll know what I need, what is most important.
You're a good, wonderful, witty, engaging, handsome man.
Enjoy.. Feel good knowing yourself.. you're worth it!
John..I think you're taking the right approach...a buddy of mine told me a while back that when dating..things take time..you'll meet lots of new people and when you least expect it one of these ladies will grab your attention...
Hey John.. I too would love to meet someone to eradicate my feelings for the ex, wouldnt we all! The other option is to remain single, which is ok.. but kind of sucks! Life is more fun with a partner and I miss romance.
Anyway...you said "i would have no problem activating LJ off the injury reserve list"
OMG! An injury!?? What has happened to the little fella!? It cant be a strained muscle, hahahaha
Hey Ali, He is on the injury reserve list only as a technicality....the little guy is on a reconditioning stint. Otherwise, he would have had to clear waivers and who knows who would have picked him up!
Mike, I am anxious for somebody to grab my "attention"....
Gyps, Wow...thanks for ALL those kind words... The feelings i have are almost all gone...i know what you are saying though. I figured if someone came along, it would erase any lingering effects that may still exist somewhere in me.
Hey Ali, He is on the injury reserve list only as a technicality....the little guy is on a reconditioning stint. Otherwise, he would have had to clear waivers and who knows who would have picked him up!
Mike, I am anxious for somebody to grab my "attention"....
Gyps, Wow...thanks for ALL those kind words... The feelings i have are almost all gone...i know what you are saying though. I figured if someone came along, it would erase any lingering effects that may still exist somewhere in me.
