Wow Saffie.. you sure you're with the right man afterall !? Lol. So, thanks for the 2x4's!
Well, I come here to vent and I AM brutally honest. But the other side is the person out there, chatting with friends, making people laugh. So I probs seem more unbalanced than I am in RL.
"you don't seem to be open to the possibility that there is someone else out there for you." - I am open to a new R, with someone new! But I'm not into dating. If I fall for someone.. I'll be straight in there!!
"Everything you post about this guy screams at me that he is gone from you." - When I was done with my last ex, I ignored his messages and when he came to my house, I called the Police! THAT screams done.
"So what if Helen doesn't keep up on the music scene - we don't have to be alike to make a R work." - Well yes, obviously! Its just a silly pride thing, that I have that shared interest with him and my ex is VERY emotionally invested in music, he chooses his friends on the strength of their musical tastes. He wooed me with compilation tapes and his favourite film is High Fidelity! So like GFI said, I know him and my sitch best and music is important to him. He would NEVER date a girl into R&B/dance, for example!
"also think your BF is depressed and not happy. BUT I don't think it has to do with you. Your therapists can only comment on the information that you feed them"
I totally agree and I NEVER claimed his unhappiness is to do with me! He left ME remember! He's had depression since I've known him. His unhappiness is probably not to do with Helen either. I am VERY honest and clear with the IC and not biaised. What would be the point of not being honest with your own IC!?!
I got distracted and ending up hitting send on my draft email to him!! Oops. Oh well, its sent now.
