At one point, I've come to the same answers as you. I know she's immature and selfish. I see how destructive her behavior is to D10 and our family.
Today, before this email, I told her she was immature and needed to grow up. I said, "You sew what you reap in a marriage." "If your outside is like a stone, then any seeds you sew will not take root." I know what I said may have sounded biblical. Then I told her when D10 is eighteen, don't be surprised if I say goodbye. I said way things are going, when you need me I won't be there for you. I already know you won't be there for me.
Flicka, I'm 44 years old. I don't post it, b/c I value my internet privacy. The last kiss she gave me was over 5 years ago. Except for the one she gave me by accident 3 years ago.
I'm afraid not being in L has become my W's identity. She's the one her GFs feel bad for her b/c she's such a good person, but stuck in a bad M. When her F's see me, they can tell that I'm not a bad guy. Many people these days are out for what makes them happy. If my W is willing to go out when they ask, well who cares about Fixer. Since alot of her F's are selfish she always has someone to go out with. Yes, I told her she has a drinking problem, she tells me that she only drinks water when she doesn't have any money. But we all know acceptance is the first part of recovery.
