Thanks for all the differing opinions and outlook on things..

I take them all into consideration...and appreciate it.

This is how this will work..Yes..I've seen VST41 quite a bit over the last week..I saw her last night..she drove down to see me and attend the ballgame..she has made it quite clear that this is a two way street and she will put forth the effort to investigate what possibilities there may be in all this. I am quite confidwent in what I'm doing at the moment and she sees that confidence in me..as a matter of fact she likes it..she also likes me in the lead..so I'm leading..and she is with me. She feels safe...

taking it slow is a matter of opinion..seeing each other, talking on the phone and keeping the "physical aspect" out of it IMO is slow...and I'll continue to keep that up...

i've made plans for us for some stuff this weekend...I made the plans..and she likes that..she loves it as a matter of fact and is quite pleased that I took the lead and made those plans..she likes a strong confident man and that's what she is getting..

so my intention is to keep going at "our" pace and see where this goes...without all these other distractions..we are a good match..We both see where we fit each other well and both are looking for any red flags that may pop up..we look good together....

no flowers..yet

I get Caleigh today..hopefully..she is a little sick and if she gets worse then I'm going to let her stay with Kim and get her tomorrow maybe..

I'm going to church Sunday morning.. ;\) first time in a long time..just to throw some more things into my life so I can be a bit more balanced..

I feel pretty good right now...my life is good..

Last edited by M from Tennessee; 01/14/09 02:55 PM.