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[hoosiermama]

thanks. it is a dangerous thing emotionally, and scary. but we're both grownups. and it's very affirming to know that someone remembers me with affection.

I can begin to understand the power of H's reconnection with OW, at least in the beginning. I would not have sought this outside the marriage, but I can see that it can be a very powerful thing and wasn't as punitive to me as it felt at the time. And I know that I need to forgive but also know it will be very difficult--this is helpful.