Julia, I havent posted for a while, but I always keep an eye on you. I dont feel I can give useful advice in some cases because sometimes I'm worried I will sound too radical/harsh on a few things, so, I keep quiet.
I am convinced, the only way an WAS will ever reconsider his/her actions is when he feel the LBS has REALLY moved on to having a happy life. We can fake it all we want, they seem to have a built-in BS detector and they know. Once we really start enjoying our life, they start looking our way.
I guess what I am saying is that I agree with Sandy. xxx K
