H update - so when we left the my suggested meet up to talk about the house he had suggested Tues and I said no how about Weds.
I got a text last night asking if I was still free and would I like to go to P (a restaurant). This is unusual, a) it's an evening and therefore no particular cut off time to escape (although he may do the usual of saying he has to go at whatever time). and b) he hasn't suggested a meal since pre second bomb. Mostly it is drink so there is a get out if needs be.
I forgot to reply last night and when I was on the train this morning he sent me another text asking if I had got his last message 'because he was not sure what's happening'. Ok, can I vent here because it made me lol
Do you know how many times last year I sat there waiting for him to text to arrange whatever meeting we were having? Because, yes it *is* really annoying isn't it when someone does that... he used to do it every time and the one time I do it he gets all anxious (or whatever he is feeling!). Lesson for me there then.
So I another hour and a half and just replied 'sounds good, which one' (it is a chain). He replied with the location asking if I knew it. I replied with 'Yup, I know it. See you there at 5.30' - and didn't wait for him to suggest a time, I'm no longer into drawing blood from stones!
So meet up tonight, I am in a very positive mood today and have a great 180 outfit, although I'm having a bit of a bad hair day!! For me tonight is about the house, nothing more.