Thanks for the encouragement Karen & Poohbear. I'm not so strong, I haven't done anything yet. But that's definitely the path I will go down. I've been going through this for 8 months now, and I'm just at the point where it's intolerable. I don't know either of your beliefs, but as a Christian, I simply can't have anything to do with someone who dishonor God in such a way and then claim to be his follower. I'm not turning my back on her, I still love her very much, and I will be willing to reconcile if she decides to, but I also refuse to continue fighting for her while she plays musical chairs with our life.
Karen, your thread is definitely an inspiration! Keep chugging along!