I know I have posted only briefly to you on here.....and that was some time ago. But I do dip in and out of your thread.
Please, do yourself a favour and forget this guy. You cause yourself so much anguish and dangle on every little nuance of his contacts or what others say. It is excruciating. The guy is gone. Give it up. This isn't MLC from what I read of what you describe....it is a guy who hasn't had the balls to tell you to just give up and go away. He wants to be Mr Nice but he is actually cruel by not stating things baldly to you.
I am sorry if this is hard for you to read, and I am not saying it out of spite. I am saying it because you need to spend time on things other than this....things that will give you greater happiness and reward. You appear to read way to much into any contact you have from him of any variety....stuff that he no doubt doesn't think twice about. Whatever OW is like, he prefered her over you....and if he dumpd her who says he would even look at coming back to you.
Please get real.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
