M, Seeing a woman 3 times in the first week of dating and talking to her everyday is NOT taking it slow....
These are the things the "nice guy" almost always does.
Too much too soon. Keep dating others. It is good for both of you. Slow works better. No flowers yet.
do agree with the first part here Mike, but don't 'necessarily' agree with continuing to date others. If she found out she might be offended and I think you give this a chance but take it slow. Go out with buddies instead as you will want to keep that up anyway. Think that's one thing a lot of us do, we stop seeing our friends as much when we get into Rs and in hindsight, that's not overly healthy if you ask me.