Came home last night to a surprise that rocked our boat. The OW's FIL was standing in my kitchen when I got home from work. He and my H were talking. He wanted to talk to us and look at the crash site. He was on his way to a meeting that all of the parents were having, to see what they can do to get the OM admitted for evaluation. Since OW won't cooperate, they are trying to find a way to work around her. They are all of the mindset that the crash was intentional, and that OM will hurt W and my H if he can.
Not a fun evening. H's guilt is back and he is in defense mode. Back to how unhappy our M is and trying to justify his actions. Said that he had the A because I was such a controlling b!tch. Consequenses now that are making us all revisit actions. Not fun.
I did not sleep well and don't feel so good this morning. Just going to stay home and try to get some rest. I need to keep everyone's emotional stuff away from me. I don't want to be a part of their drama. I want peace, calm and goodness in my life. I am going to focus on that.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
