Good for you Mikey! It sounds like you and VST41 are on the same page with this thing, so just go with it. Don't overthink it at this point. Enjoy your time together and apart and just let things happen naturally. Its ok to be a little scared of how you feel, anyone would be a little gun-shy after what you've been through, but you don't have to think about anything further than later today. Just take it at the pace you two are comfortable with and see what happens.
Yay you! And for those of us living vicariously...keep posting about the cool dates you go on and stuff.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
she is absolutely beautiful..she knows her LL..she knows that that means..she has a clue..about men and relationships..there is a big connection and we knew it when we first talked about 3 weeks ago.and yes..I dig her..I think she is awesome...and i also dig her because she digs me..we both think it is all good..and are going real slow..as a matter of fact it's "watching grass grow slow" and right now..I have no problem with that..
So much digging going on Mike, when you reach the UK, look me up !!!
sounds an awesome lady BTW, if your not sure, tell her where I am in the other place and I'll take her out
You already said it Mike. No reason to date others strictly for the sake of 'dating others'. You have pretty good batchitt radar at this point. Just keep doing what you're doing...hope the game was fun.
M, Seeing a woman 3 times in the first week of dating and talking to her everyday is NOT taking it slow....
These are the things the "nice guy" almost always does.
Too much too soon. Keep dating others. It is good for both of you. Slow works better. No flowers yet.
do agree with the first part here Mike, but don't 'necessarily' agree with continuing to date others. If she found out she might be offended and I think you give this a chance but take it slow. Go out with buddies instead as you will want to keep that up anyway. Think that's one thing a lot of us do, we stop seeing our friends as much when we get into Rs and in hindsight, that's not overly healthy if you ask me.
I dont think it wise to continue to date others if you found someone interesting. Just continue to see the teacher with uncertainty for now and be the nice gentleman guy that you are.
