Hey Lodo, just watched Benjamin Button the day before yesterday. The movie is not out here yet but H brought me an illegal copy for "awards nomination viewing only" LOL!!! It is a good movie. In my case, an alarm went off. For me it meant "change what makes you unhappy = my H", LOL!!! Funny he liked it too. His whole life has been resisting change and being stagnant. During our common life I was always pushing and trying and risking for both of us (nothing much, little things). He used to just come along when he couldnt find an excuse not to. That has been very draining for me. Very. Come to think of it, I think I really need to divorce him. LOL!! K